How can I find out whose buddy list I'm on -AIM?

So I recently checked my old aim sn and I deleted people over the years and I'm left with only 31 buddies I ociate with regularly and who I have been friends with for years. When I checked preferences, it says that im on 246 buddy lists. Could I find out whose bl I'm on. I'm curious. Especially since I'd ume if we don't speak, then they wouldve deleted me too!